I agree. Nothing angers me more than listening to someone blast people for "being gay", thinking it's some sort of disease or worse yet, a moral sin! They are treating them worse than second class citizens and see nothing wrong with it. Begs the question of who has the moral issues. And the fact that the media jumps all over this makes it even worse! Although it is doing a great service by bringing to the attention of the American people, it also segregates them and makes them look like second class citizens. Sort of counter productive in my views.
As for Santorum, I was one that supported the call for him to resign when he alikened homosexuality to beastiality and other "immoral acts" as he called them. He really needs to go! I did sign a petition and sent one of those online letters to him and got a very lame response (form letter), saying that he stood by what he said and said he was in alliance with his constituents etc, etc, etc.
The thing that scares me is that there is enough support for some sort of ban on gay marriage. Whether it be a constitutional amendment, or just state to state laws, polls are showing that a majority of people support some sort of ban. This whole debate is doing nothing but harm to the gay community. As it is, a lot of people have not "come out of the closet" in fear of persecution. This will force them to "come out" and support gay rights, which could lead to other, unwanted consequences. I really feel for them. You can almost aliken this to Hitler's persecution of the Jews in pre WWI Europe. (I hesitate to say that, but it is an unfounded persecution). Granted, there has not been a mass genocide (yet), but they are still being treated roughly the same.
I did find a site a few days ago where you can send an email to Dick Cheney's daughter urging her to support the gay community and denounce her father's support for an amendment.
www.dearmary.com. (Mary Cheney is an open lesbian who supports gay civil rights).